Does appearance matter?
You think you
look bad? Look around! You are not the only guy with bad teeth/skin/face! And,
surprise, this doesn’t mean you can’t have a hot sex with a
girl after your first and only date with her. How can it be?
Actually dissatisfaction with own reflection in the mirror is quite a standard situation and the root of the problem is the lack of experience in the field of style and selection of clothing. So let’s review this problem first.
Clothing
One general rule of appearance – clothing must be clean and neat. Additional rule – no more than 3 dominant colors in clothing. You can dress nicely and through your appearance receive the confidence, which is the basic quality necessary to seduce women. You must be sure to wear clothing which can stress your confidence.
One more advice – wear common in partying circle clothing. Examples – a typical external „metal“, „punk“, „emo“. More advanced styles of clothing – the so-called sports style, which is characterized by convenience, comfort and freedom (Puma, Reebok, Adidas). The alternative – the so-called street style. Loose, screaming colors, garish and catchy labels.
You and only you should be comfortable with your outfit. The rest are social conventions.
Hairstyle, height, constitution
Now let’s discuss some other attributes of your appearance.
The hair may be short, long, you can be bald-headed, with the Iroquois, dreds, hairstyle of horror movies – it does not matter. The general rule – the hair must be clean and neat. Attend hairdresser once a month and everything will be fine.
Many guys have problems considering themselves too tall or too short. First of all, let’s accept the fact that there is few you can do about it, cause high heels are not popular on the shelves with men’s shoes. So why worry? You simply have to deal with what nature gave you. To cheer you up, I can say that anything in between 5.4 and 6.4 feet is a normal height for a guy. It’s more important though what kind of body you have in between the top of the head and tips of the toes.
One can generalize that slim and healthy body is attractive. In general, it does not matter. Of course, the apparent deficiencies can be corrected. At least it is desirable to correct them. Bad teeth are treated at dentist, for acne treatment visit dermatologist, get slimmer by visiting a dietitian, and treat scoliosis with the help of manual therapist.
Summary
Remember though that appearance is an important, but not a critical parameter. Suffice it to say that you appreciate at first the appearance and only then – other parameters. Be sure that your appearance is good enough to pick up a girl and take her to the first date, continue acquaintance. It's difficult to choose something quite universal for your style. Just be consistent with the external environment and conditions. For example, at the beach do not wear the costume, and in the university – the sportswear.









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