NLP
Pickuper’s Emotional State
Best pick
ups are done when it happens as if by itself. You express no signs of
nervousness, worlds just come out of your mouth, hands are doing their job, mind
remains in the state of perfect equanimity. This is the best emotional
condition for pickup. But how to reach it? The problem is that you do
not always have access to such state of body and mind (you have a bad mood,
you're tired, you simply don’t want to meet a girl). This is not good and not
bad, and this is something that all people experience.
There are many exercises and techniques to reach the desired state of the mind, which will help you to get the chick you like easily. Some of them will be described below. Yet, first of all this is necessary to remember one thing. You are getting into pickup games for fun, and once you start being very serious about meeting girls and seducing them, once you persuade yourself that the naked girl in your bed is the only thing that can make you happy – the pleasant game stops there, because you are no longer the one who sets rules and you become the slave of external conditions. No matter how you feel, no matter how women react on you – try to have fun under any conditions. Having sex with three girls simultaneously is fun only if you are happy at that moment. It can make you happy only if you were in a good mood while seducing them, and are still in a good mood when in bed with them. So enjoy every moment of seduction game and don’t care about results – this is the only way to success. Feel about seduction as of an exciting game and consider sex a bonus level.
Overcoming the Bitch-shield
Bitch-shield is
often used by attractive young women to weed out unsuitable, unconfident males.
It is usually observed in the behavior and the style of conversation with a
metamessage „Go away, jerk.“
Engaging in conversation with the girls wearing a „bitch-shield“ for some guys may be an equivalent of an exquisite torture. But those who have started learning these easy pickup techniques will definitely find it not so difficult and even very pleasant sometimes. The fact is that any girl regardless of her conversation manner is just a woman, which means she is suitable to have sex with. Women often tell guys to fuck off just because they could not filter numerous admirers otherwise.
This is your task to let her know you that if you play games, you will the one who sets rules. Trust me, if you have enough confidence to break through this bitch shield, she will be very grateful. Very possible, she will find a mean to express her gratitude when you take her to bed.
Meeting New Girls
Guys say:
“I have no confidence to get to the girl”. Really, this is a very common
situation. Social conventions and limiting beliefs are the root of the
problem.
There are many approaches to develop confidence in meeting new girls and starting a conversation. Weak pickup experience is one of the problems and it can be easily fixed with few exercises. You might say that exercising is not for you and all you need is to read a couple of articles on the Internet. Well, then the only girls you will meet are going to be virtual ones as well. For those who want to taste real juicy chicks I suggest the following.
Step one. Ask any girl something that is quite calmly perceived in society. For example, ask her what time is it. To consolidate the new skill do it 100 times.
Step Two. Blindfolding the conversation. Approach to the girl, greet her, and asked how to get somewhere, incidentally clarify the details. Then say „bye“ and go away.
Step Three. The same as in Step 2, but ask the name of the girl and say „Bye, Name!“
Another exercise is a standard newby mission. Say „Hi!“ to every girl passing by and then go away. No conversation, just greeting. To consolidate the result repeat at least 100 times.